this unfortunately doesnt resolve my issue, ive connected to the game before, the server is up, there are people actively in the game as i can see the number online, it is not full, and i see the number change as people log in or out of the game, yet when i click connect as often happens the login background will freeze for about 10 seconds with the music still playing then it says Unable to Connect. I dunno if this is a windows 10 issue or something, yesterday I tried to connect about 10 times and finally was put into the queue to join. It's a beta and a 3rd party game so I'm not complaining by any means just that my issue isnt covered in that sticky post.
edit: looks like DDoS attack going on :( that would likely explain it