Hey
Sorry to see you think its hard and a Joke, but there are a couple of things you can do yourself to resolve this..
1. Keep trying, its not supposed to get easier
2. As suggested there are people in Johto who you can buy from that sell decent level pokemon
I don't know what outcome you expected with this topic, keep trying and if you still blackout then consider investing in a higher level pokemon from a seller in Johto.
Keep trying, and good luck!