There could be a lot said but because the majority of staff are volunteered based from what I have heard, like fine to expect all these things and if the time frame content etc take do not suit you the [heck] answer is well quit.
I am a person who really likes when new stuff comes out content wise consistently and in the past I have been salty at how long this game takes to add meaningful updates but like I said and I have faced it myself also, these are volunteers so in my instance I have just accepted that and if it annoys me to much at some point again I’ll just remove myself from the game.
Can always come back when things are added down the line.
Whole playerbase is a bit salty over Astrella but we make the choice whether to take a break and come back when those moms become available or quit for good as over waiting.
unfortunately it is just a decision you will have to make also.
tldr: I understand where you are coming from but it is just how it is with the circumstances of this game.