[glow=red]Moved to proper place[/glow]
Hello Flowerbabe, welcome to PRO, the only advice I can give you in order to find friends is to talk in All Chat while playing or search the Guild subforum to find a guild and meet new people from there.
As for the second part of the your topic, you can find the spawns of this game in this Spawn Guide.
As for my little extra tip to you, try to explore our forum, you can interact with people of different servers, play games in our Playground and make your own Suggestions.
If you have any problems along your stay, we have various ways to support you.
You can check our Game Guides or seek out Live Chat support via our IRC Channel. We've also got a list of Frequently Asked Questions to help guide you through.
Hope you all the best and good luck meeting new players and finding new friends :)