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Hello; I've compiled a small and quick list of basic things you should know if you suspect that someone is lying to you. Down below are the variables you should learn before talking to someone who might lie to you. Figured this might be useful in everyday life so I wanted to share this with you. Personally, people shouldn't even leave the house without knowing those. I can say those should be basics for every. We live in a world full of lies and corruption and this is extremely useful. You can apply this in everyday life. Doesn't have to be anything related with killing etc.
Enjoy.
[spoil]Deception Patterns;
1. Non contracted denial;<i></i>
People who are overdetermined in their denial will resort often to formal language.
They also use "distancing language" That guy, that (object) and so on. Liars will unconsciously distance themselves from the subject,
as they are trying to discredit the subject.
*Example 1; I did not killed that guy.
*Example 2; I am not the person who went to that apartment and killed that guy.
*Example 3; I did not stole his bike > will become > I did not stole the bike.
**Solved; "I didn't do it" > "I did not do it"
2. No human can keep a secret;<i></i>
- They can be quiet and very talkative but they move their fingers as well as doing other gestures where they have zero control of.
3. Freezing;<i></i>
-The culprit may freeze upper body when lying. During that time it is advised to monitor any motion from lower part of body.
4. Duping delight; <i></i>
-Here is the culprit actually proud of his getting away with it. Example; Judge says not guilty and they smile afterwards.
-So pretty much it is a pleasure culprit gets over having someone in control and being able to manipulate.
5. Masking face expressions;<i></i>
-Culprit can make one expression to mask another one. (being aware that they failed and that they are being monitored so they try and confuse you). For instance a killer might be leaking sadness.
6. Expression of contempt; <i></i>
-When anger turns to contempt, then you have been dismissed. You can associate it with moral superiority, very hard to recover from.
Example; One lip corner pulled up and another one pulled in (asymmetrical expression). In presence of contempt, they might look around as they are having asymmetrical expression.
7. False agony;<i></i>
-Pretending to be in agony over a loss of someone who is relative with you or you are close with; You may also notice a duping delight here as well.
8. Fake smile;<i></i>
-It's not possible to fake a smile. liars often tend to do so. it's visible how they are forcing their muscles to smile. You may also notice slight twitching due to muscles being forced to do something, rather unnatural attempt.
9. Eye Contact;<i></i>
-A liar may avoid eye contact and show some signs of discomfort.
10. Voice Pitch increase;<i></i>
-A liar tend to increase their pitch when talking. Pitch is usually followed by a sigh or apologizing for increasing the pitch. They might even swallow their own saliva in the process instead of apologizing.
11. Blinking;<i></i>
-People who stating a lie will blink more often. Blinking more means more chance of a lie. The chance of a lie also goes up the longer or the more that the eyes are closed. (This can be observational, say one day we ask them a real facts and other day we ask them about something they might lie about.)
*Example of non observational; What is your name? My name is Nikola. > I am going to blink 15 times in a minute which is average for a human.
*Example of a lie = non observational; Did you killed them? > I am going to blink around 100/130 times per minute here. This suggests us that probability of a lie is more than 90%.
*Example of observational method; Subject is given a series of ordinary questions that they know answer to, not much related with the case. 14 000/ 15 000 blinks in a day as average.
*Example of observational method; Subject is given series of a question about the incident, blinking ratio will go up to 120 000 times for a day.
12. Using your words;<i></i>
-Someone who lies will often use your words for their response.
*Example; Did you killed my dog? Answer would be; No, I did not killed your dog.
13. Biting their lips;<i></i>
-A liar tend to slowly bite their left side of a lower lip. That is suggesting us that they are preparing for your next question as they make up the story.
14. Looking at you forehead;<i></i>
-A liar tend to watch you at your forehead when lying and avoiding eye contact in general. Watching someone in the eye takes a lot of processing for someone who is busy making up the story.
15. Looking you in the eyes; <i></i>
-They also tend to look you at the eyes because they are aware that you noticed them not doing so. Liars tend to know that lack of eye contact might indicate a lie so they force look you at the eyes.
16. Justifying;<i></i>
-Wanting to justify themselves they might give a lot more information than you expect from them or go too deep into the subject.
17. Shrugging;<i></i>
- People often do a "semi-shrug". Their shrug barely goes more than their hips are, everything until rib cage means possible lie.
18. Touching patterns;
-Touching their face, mouth and nose is more frequent. Touching patterns are not consistent as they are making stuff as they go. Often unable to repeat what they said a minute ago due to transparency in their story.
19. Mixing up words and gestures;<i></i>
-A Liar will often mix up their gestures and words, they wont be synchronized. Words like "AFAIK (as far as I know)" tend to be used more often.
20. Event explaining order;<i></i>
-Someone explaining things chronologically can suggest that they are lying, unlike people who are telling truth only mention certain moments. You can link this with methods above such as going to deep.
21. Pause between the statements;<i></i>
- When a liar is trying to cover up the truth they tend to take a long pause so that they can create a sequence of events and prepare to lie.[/spoil]
Enjoy.
[spoil]Deception Patterns;
1. Non contracted denial;<i></i>
People who are overdetermined in their denial will resort often to formal language.
They also use "distancing language" That guy, that (object) and so on. Liars will unconsciously distance themselves from the subject,
as they are trying to discredit the subject.
*Example 1; I did not killed that guy.
*Example 2; I am not the person who went to that apartment and killed that guy.
*Example 3; I did not stole his bike > will become > I did not stole the bike.
**Solved; "I didn't do it" > "I did not do it"
2. No human can keep a secret;<i></i>
- They can be quiet and very talkative but they move their fingers as well as doing other gestures where they have zero control of.
3. Freezing;<i></i>
-The culprit may freeze upper body when lying. During that time it is advised to monitor any motion from lower part of body.
4. Duping delight; <i></i>
-Here is the culprit actually proud of his getting away with it. Example; Judge says not guilty and they smile afterwards.
-So pretty much it is a pleasure culprit gets over having someone in control and being able to manipulate.
5. Masking face expressions;<i></i>
-Culprit can make one expression to mask another one. (being aware that they failed and that they are being monitored so they try and confuse you). For instance a killer might be leaking sadness.
6. Expression of contempt; <i></i>
-When anger turns to contempt, then you have been dismissed. You can associate it with moral superiority, very hard to recover from.
Example; One lip corner pulled up and another one pulled in (asymmetrical expression). In presence of contempt, they might look around as they are having asymmetrical expression.
7. False agony;<i></i>
-Pretending to be in agony over a loss of someone who is relative with you or you are close with; You may also notice a duping delight here as well.
8. Fake smile;<i></i>
-It's not possible to fake a smile. liars often tend to do so. it's visible how they are forcing their muscles to smile. You may also notice slight twitching due to muscles being forced to do something, rather unnatural attempt.
9. Eye Contact;<i></i>
-A liar may avoid eye contact and show some signs of discomfort.
10. Voice Pitch increase;<i></i>
-A liar tend to increase their pitch when talking. Pitch is usually followed by a sigh or apologizing for increasing the pitch. They might even swallow their own saliva in the process instead of apologizing.
11. Blinking;<i></i>
-People who stating a lie will blink more often. Blinking more means more chance of a lie. The chance of a lie also goes up the longer or the more that the eyes are closed. (This can be observational, say one day we ask them a real facts and other day we ask them about something they might lie about.)
*Example of non observational; What is your name? My name is Nikola. > I am going to blink 15 times in a minute which is average for a human.
*Example of a lie = non observational; Did you killed them? > I am going to blink around 100/130 times per minute here. This suggests us that probability of a lie is more than 90%.
*Example of observational method; Subject is given a series of ordinary questions that they know answer to, not much related with the case. 14 000/ 15 000 blinks in a day as average.
*Example of observational method; Subject is given series of a question about the incident, blinking ratio will go up to 120 000 times for a day.
12. Using your words;<i></i>
-Someone who lies will often use your words for their response.
*Example; Did you killed my dog? Answer would be; No, I did not killed your dog.
13. Biting their lips;<i></i>
-A liar tend to slowly bite their left side of a lower lip. That is suggesting us that they are preparing for your next question as they make up the story.
14. Looking at you forehead;<i></i>
-A liar tend to watch you at your forehead when lying and avoiding eye contact in general. Watching someone in the eye takes a lot of processing for someone who is busy making up the story.
15. Looking you in the eyes; <i></i>
-They also tend to look you at the eyes because they are aware that you noticed them not doing so. Liars tend to know that lack of eye contact might indicate a lie so they force look you at the eyes.
16. Justifying;<i></i>
-Wanting to justify themselves they might give a lot more information than you expect from them or go too deep into the subject.
17. Shrugging;<i></i>
- People often do a "semi-shrug". Their shrug barely goes more than their hips are, everything until rib cage means possible lie.
18. Touching patterns;
-Touching their face, mouth and nose is more frequent. Touching patterns are not consistent as they are making stuff as they go. Often unable to repeat what they said a minute ago due to transparency in their story.
19. Mixing up words and gestures;<i></i>
-A Liar will often mix up their gestures and words, they wont be synchronized. Words like "AFAIK (as far as I know)" tend to be used more often.
20. Event explaining order;<i></i>
-Someone explaining things chronologically can suggest that they are lying, unlike people who are telling truth only mention certain moments. You can link this with methods above such as going to deep.
21. Pause between the statements;<i></i>
- When a liar is trying to cover up the truth they tend to take a long pause so that they can create a sequence of events and prepare to lie.[/spoil]
